Talking About Sex
The best way to carry out this exercise is to print off the questions, cut them up and then pick questions at random. You need to do this in a safe, relaxed environment and to ensure you won't be interrupted. Don't leave it for a night when you are tired or stressed
- What is the one thing I've never been able to tell you about sex?
- How does your mood impact on our love making?
- Do you think romance is important in love making?
- Do you think there is a difference between having sex and making love?
- Do you think role playing during sex is interesting?
- What are you embarrassed to ask for during sex?
- What do you think of your body?
- Which part of my body do you like the most?
- Do you think our sex life has enough variety?
- What is the most important part of love making to you?
- What do you think foreplay should consist of?
- What do you wish I would do more of?
- What do you wish I would do less of?
- Why do you fall asleep/want to talk after sex?
- I really like it when you .......
- Do you have a fantasy you want to act on/out?
- How can I show you that I want sex?
- Is there anything about sex that makes you uncomfortable?
- Would sex toys improve our love making?
- Do we need to change the places we make love? (either location or the general environment)
- How can we make sex better?